Many relationships and marriages fail because people mistakenly assume that if two people are in love, everything will work out great no matter what.
Love, however, is blind only in the beginning. After the period of sighs, flowers and first kisses is over, all imperfections and vices become visible. It doesn't have to mean that with that your love is over. It just means that you have to put effort into your relationship, which will surely pay off.
First of all, pay attention to your appearance. Many women stop putting make-up and dressing up nicely on as soon as they get married or as soon as they start living with the guy. They think that since their guy has already seen them without make-up, they don't have to make an effort to look nicer.
This is the wrong attitude, because no matter what they say, physical appearance matters to men. Guys may adore you for your intelligence, sense of humor, kindness and a myriad of other qualities you may possess. However, it is in men's nature to be attracted to women who look good.
Guys should not relax as well. If you got your girl, it doesn't mean that you can stop shaving and throw your cologne away. Women care about physical appearance less than men, but they still like their men to be fresh, clean and decent looking.
If you want your partner to love you more, you should never underestimate the power of romance. Romance is what will keep your relationship alive and will make your love grow stronger.
Remember that investing in your relationship and marriage might be the best investment you ever make.
There are many easy ways to be romantic and it doesn't matter if you are on a budget or don't have free time.
Check Romantic Ideas blog for fun and romantic gift ideas for procrastinators, for unique gift ideas for eccentric people; romantic date ideas on a budget and many tips on how to spice up your relationship.
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Saturday, December 11, 2010
Syukur Alhamdulillah
Tanggal 1 haribulan 12 2010, aku akhirnya telah pun menamatkan zaman single ngan berjaya memiliki hati seorang wanita yang bernama jeng jeng jeng.... ahahahha aku rasa aku tak berani nak letak kat sini since banyak yang nanti nak kacau plak. but apa-apa hal pun aku bersyukur berkat kesabaran aku selama ini telah memberi rezeki yang lebih kepada aku .Alhamdulillah syukur . I am very grateful to Allah because, He gave me you, sweet heart=D ahahaha. To be short, me and her, we both has the same feeling, the same common and we both just realize that we both are left handed tu yang tambah geram lagi ahahahaha. WTV it is i I will share the picture of my beautiful soul mate we the right time has come.=D so be patient yeah
Sunday, November 28, 2010
before or after marriage - Risk Factors for Premarital Sex
Teenagers who feel incomplete, inadequate and unappreciated are more likely to seek comfort in a sexual relationship. But those with a life rich in relationships, family traditions, activities, interests and — most of all — consistent love and affirmation are less likely to embark on a desperate search for fulfillment that could lead to unwise sexual decisions. Those who have a healthy, productive faith in God are more likely to have deeply rooted reasons to respect and preserve the gift of sex and to respect rather than exploit others.
Be aware of these specific risk factors for teen sex:
Alcohol and drug use. Aside from reflecting problem attitudes (rebellion, poor self-concept, invulnerability) that make sex more likely, intoxication also clouds judgment and weakens resistance to sexual overtures.
A steady boyfriend or girlfriend. Strong attachments and feelings of exclusivity invite nature to take its course, especially when physical expressions of affection begin early in the relationship. This is a particular risk in a situation where the boy is more than two or three years older than the girl is. If a teen romance appears to be getting hot and heavy and a lot of physical contact is already displayed, you will need to speak with both boy and girl diplomatically but candidly about the physical process they are setting in motion.
Little parental monitoring. Leaving adolescents alone for hours at a time or not requiring accountability is a setup for sex.
A parental belief that adolescent sex is appropriate. If you think premarital sex is okay, your adolescent will too and will act on that belief.
A parental belief that adolescent sex is inevitable. Many parents who disapprove of teen sex have also concluded that it is as certain as death and taxes. Their approach to the subject will thus be double-edged: "Don't do it, but in case you do, use this condom." Adolescents will get the message loud and clear and are likely to act accordingly.
Low grade-point average/low attachment to school. While school performance is affected by a variety of factors, a basic desire to do well in school reflects a more hopeful outlook on the future and a willingness to put off immediate gratification for long-term goals. Teen sex, on the contrary, usually reflects ignorance of or little regard for consequences.
This doesn't mean, of course, that every scholar is a bulwark of morality or that all who are not academically oriented are destined to be promiscuous. What ultimately matters is a person's commitment to basic values such as responsibility, respect for self and others and concern about the effect of today's decisions on the future.
A history of physical or sexual abuse . These acts against children and adolescents violate their bodies, minds and hearts. Sexual abuse creates a grossly distorted view of sexual behavior, destroys boundaries, and drives a deep sense of worthlessness into the emotions. Whether the abuse occurred in the distant or recent past, adolescents with this history need ongoing support, counseling and prayer to help them develop healthy attitudes about sex and about themselves.
Frequent family relocations. Moving generally stresses both parents and adolescents (especially if the kids resent the decision). This can erode parental authority and distract parents from involvement with their children. Bonds to social supports such as church groups that help prevent sexual activity are severed by multiple moves. Loneliness and loss of friendships may lead some teenagers to use sexual activity to gain social acceptance. These issues should be considered by parents who are thinking about a possible relocation.
Only one parent in the household. Parenting was meant to be a team effort, and some risks will naturally increase when one parent is left to do all the protecting and monitoring alone. Some studies do indicate that adolescents living with a single parent are more likely to become sexually active than those living with both parents. Work and household demands can prevent single parents from being as involved and attentive as they need and want to be. And the divorce and desertion that sometimes lead to a one-parent home can make teens uncertain about the value of marriage as the setting for sexual activity and about the role of sexuality in parental relationships.
This increased risk does not mean that adolescent sex is inevitable in single-parent families. But it does place an additional responsibility on single parents to send their teenagers clear and consistent messages about sexuality. And it is one more reason for single parents to enlist as much support as they can.
Be aware of these specific risk factors for teen sex:
Alcohol and drug use. Aside from reflecting problem attitudes (rebellion, poor self-concept, invulnerability) that make sex more likely, intoxication also clouds judgment and weakens resistance to sexual overtures.
A steady boyfriend or girlfriend. Strong attachments and feelings of exclusivity invite nature to take its course, especially when physical expressions of affection begin early in the relationship. This is a particular risk in a situation where the boy is more than two or three years older than the girl is. If a teen romance appears to be getting hot and heavy and a lot of physical contact is already displayed, you will need to speak with both boy and girl diplomatically but candidly about the physical process they are setting in motion.
Little parental monitoring. Leaving adolescents alone for hours at a time or not requiring accountability is a setup for sex.
A parental belief that adolescent sex is appropriate. If you think premarital sex is okay, your adolescent will too and will act on that belief.
A parental belief that adolescent sex is inevitable. Many parents who disapprove of teen sex have also concluded that it is as certain as death and taxes. Their approach to the subject will thus be double-edged: "Don't do it, but in case you do, use this condom." Adolescents will get the message loud and clear and are likely to act accordingly.
Low grade-point average/low attachment to school. While school performance is affected by a variety of factors, a basic desire to do well in school reflects a more hopeful outlook on the future and a willingness to put off immediate gratification for long-term goals. Teen sex, on the contrary, usually reflects ignorance of or little regard for consequences.
This doesn't mean, of course, that every scholar is a bulwark of morality or that all who are not academically oriented are destined to be promiscuous. What ultimately matters is a person's commitment to basic values such as responsibility, respect for self and others and concern about the effect of today's decisions on the future.
A history of physical or sexual abuse . These acts against children and adolescents violate their bodies, minds and hearts. Sexual abuse creates a grossly distorted view of sexual behavior, destroys boundaries, and drives a deep sense of worthlessness into the emotions. Whether the abuse occurred in the distant or recent past, adolescents with this history need ongoing support, counseling and prayer to help them develop healthy attitudes about sex and about themselves.
Frequent family relocations. Moving generally stresses both parents and adolescents (especially if the kids resent the decision). This can erode parental authority and distract parents from involvement with their children. Bonds to social supports such as church groups that help prevent sexual activity are severed by multiple moves. Loneliness and loss of friendships may lead some teenagers to use sexual activity to gain social acceptance. These issues should be considered by parents who are thinking about a possible relocation.
Only one parent in the household. Parenting was meant to be a team effort, and some risks will naturally increase when one parent is left to do all the protecting and monitoring alone. Some studies do indicate that adolescents living with a single parent are more likely to become sexually active than those living with both parents. Work and household demands can prevent single parents from being as involved and attentive as they need and want to be. And the divorce and desertion that sometimes lead to a one-parent home can make teens uncertain about the value of marriage as the setting for sexual activity and about the role of sexuality in parental relationships.
This increased risk does not mean that adolescent sex is inevitable in single-parent families. But it does place an additional responsibility on single parents to send their teenagers clear and consistent messages about sexuality. And it is one more reason for single parents to enlist as much support as they can.
Sexual Appetite
Two people are like two gods. Two of them? Two of you. Melt in the infinite bliss of the eternal love as only thus the impossible changes into a miracle and all that you are easily becomes happiness.
With sparkling soul you easily elevate each other until you reach God. Now it is possible that you melt within His heart.
ENDLESSLY EXTEND YOUR LEASURE
Usually, a man needs to ejaculate unless he has an adequate training, an esoterical knowledge about the sexual intercourse, and a specific initiation
In fact, it is the impulse of the inferior instincts of the human being. A antricublimatesthese carnal instincts and consequently he removes this wish to ejaculate by the means of a spiritual action, consciously led to sublimation.
This spiritual action means to use certain methods (ogatechniques, meditation, rituals, etc) that make the man to resonate with the sublime energies of the Universe.
Through sexual ontinence which is an alchemic process that includes to hold your semen, consciously done by the initiated ones, the primary wish to ejaculate disappears and it is replaced by the aspiration or wish to continue the union generated by the transfigurating sexual intercourse.
In this case the substance is transformed in energy, the raw into subtle, the inferior wishes in sublime aspirations.
Ejaculationis directly related to procreation; thus, tantrics use it only when they want to have a baby. Through sexual continence an opposite, very subtle phenomenon takes place: the energies are directed inside the body and not out like in the case of ejaculation.
This effervescent accumulation of energies during intercourse inside our own being generates the sublime ecstatic states mentioned by the tantric treaties and which could be the study domain of the trans personal sexology.
YOU ARE MORE ALIVE THAN EVER
It is said that the perception of the present moment can set your wish free. In a common state of consciousness we perceive the world in a certain way, sometimes without even realizing that we perceive it.
Thus, we could say that we do not "perceive" but dream the perception as the common state that we have can be similar to a unconsciousness state during the state of dream.
But in the state of pure consciousness, perception becomes a way of living. Being aware of the outside world facilitates our access to the pure existence and to its essence, the pure bliss.
In tantrism, the sexual intercourse is approached with awareness, ransfigurationand continence, the direct perception is the source of pleasure and voluptuousness.
To fully live the perceptions, to be aware of them and to perfectly control them is the fundamental tantric key that opens the gate to the alchemic art of the sensual, spiritual love.
We only have to learn how to consciously and fully enjoy the exotic pleasures and to be aware of their divine nature.
To become one with ourselves throughout the merging with the beloved during intercourse, to consciously live the bliss of love, to reach and enjoy ecstasy, this is in fact the trans personal sexology.
With sparkling soul you easily elevate each other until you reach God. Now it is possible that you melt within His heart.
ENDLESSLY EXTEND YOUR LEASURE
Usually, a man needs to ejaculate unless he has an adequate training, an esoterical knowledge about the sexual intercourse, and a specific initiation
In fact, it is the impulse of the inferior instincts of the human being. A antricublimatesthese carnal instincts and consequently he removes this wish to ejaculate by the means of a spiritual action, consciously led to sublimation.
This spiritual action means to use certain methods (ogatechniques, meditation, rituals, etc) that make the man to resonate with the sublime energies of the Universe.
Through sexual ontinence which is an alchemic process that includes to hold your semen, consciously done by the initiated ones, the primary wish to ejaculate disappears and it is replaced by the aspiration or wish to continue the union generated by the transfigurating sexual intercourse.
In this case the substance is transformed in energy, the raw into subtle, the inferior wishes in sublime aspirations.
Ejaculationis directly related to procreation; thus, tantrics use it only when they want to have a baby. Through sexual continence an opposite, very subtle phenomenon takes place: the energies are directed inside the body and not out like in the case of ejaculation.
This effervescent accumulation of energies during intercourse inside our own being generates the sublime ecstatic states mentioned by the tantric treaties and which could be the study domain of the trans personal sexology.
YOU ARE MORE ALIVE THAN EVER
It is said that the perception of the present moment can set your wish free. In a common state of consciousness we perceive the world in a certain way, sometimes without even realizing that we perceive it.
Thus, we could say that we do not "perceive" but dream the perception as the common state that we have can be similar to a unconsciousness state during the state of dream.
But in the state of pure consciousness, perception becomes a way of living. Being aware of the outside world facilitates our access to the pure existence and to its essence, the pure bliss.
In tantrism, the sexual intercourse is approached with awareness, ransfigurationand continence, the direct perception is the source of pleasure and voluptuousness.
To fully live the perceptions, to be aware of them and to perfectly control them is the fundamental tantric key that opens the gate to the alchemic art of the sensual, spiritual love.
We only have to learn how to consciously and fully enjoy the exotic pleasures and to be aware of their divine nature.
To become one with ourselves throughout the merging with the beloved during intercourse, to consciously live the bliss of love, to reach and enjoy ecstasy, this is in fact the trans personal sexology.
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Apabila suara sumbang akan bersuara 11/12
Ahahaha okay ni plan yang tak berapa pasti jadi ke tak pasal ingatkan nak gerak gi Karaoke but cam ilyas has better plan pergi vacation kat langkawi( but next year) so cam best gila babi.ahahahha so tak tahu mana satu nak gi. ahahahha kena pandai savinglah sekarang pasal duit ni memang susah nak cari but senang pergi. ahahahah lagi lagi kalau ada mangkuk hutang tue ada 10000 orang confirm duit pergi macam tue jer tanpa sempat kau nak bau.ahahahhahahah wtv it is KERJA apa-apa pun susah mana senang tak macam orang tue nak duit but kerja takmo inilah jadinya ahahahaha. bang kena tembak lagi. dah berapa kali dah kena tembak.wohooooooooooooooooooooo
Akhirnya JATUH juga si mangkuk satu
Maaflah, kali ni citer pasal salah seorang 3 mangkuk. mangkuk ni yang bernama hutang yang akhirnya sudah takde harapan lagi dan baru baru ni ada seorang kawan cerita yang dia sudah pun clash ngan awek dia and dia sekarang dah takde tempat bergantung and ntah apa dia buat tak tahulah. and ada beberapa orang inform yang dia ada hantar msg yang dia boleh dapatkan apa ntah internet service ke apa ntah. hello kawan, berapa akli nak cakap yang semua benci kau( tak tahulah siapa lagi yang kau tipu kalau member aku, Naif kau tipu burukkan aku kat dia sumpah demi Allah, hanya Allah sahaja tahu apa nak buat ngan kau.), takde siapa percaya kat kau, even kawan baik kau sendiri tak mengaku kau ni kawan baik kau. aku rasa mesti si minah tue dah sedar apa yang berlaku sekarang. serious nama kau definitely busuk di semua tempat=). ingatlah aku cakap ni bukan pasal kau kawan aku ker apa, terus terang aku tak mengaku kau kawan aku, kau nak cakap aku ngan kau adik-beradik ker apa-apa, siapa kau? kau bukan abang aku, bahkan aku bukan budak kau ke apa-apa, kau takyah bajet sangatlah kawan. kalau kau betul apa kau cakap, dah lama kau buatlah kawan, and kau takkan jatuh melainkan kau ada seorang yang bodoh and tak percaya kat Yang Maha Berkuasa. Aku cakap lagi sekali, jangan kau cabar kesabaran aku, kau burukkan nama aku, aku hancurkan kau sekejap sahaja. terima kasih=)
How to Lose Weight Fast Without Starving Yourself Or Exercising Like Crazy
osing weight can be quite a challenge, especially if you want to lose weight fast. Finding the perfect diet and exercise plan that is right for you is what will guarantee your weight loss success. All without starving yourself or exercising like crazy.
That is why the preparation steps you take before starting to lose weight are so important. By evaluating your condition and choosing the right diet for you, you will be able to lose weight fast and easy.
Your metabolism plays a key role in how fast you can lose weight. A fast metabolism makes quick weight loss a piece of cake. That is why the first step towards losing weight fast is to find out just how fast your metabolism is. You can use the Metab-O-Meter to the right to do just that. The Metab-O-Meter will tell you exactly how fast your metabolism really is.
The second step is all about choosing a diet that suits you. There are plenty of diets available but only a few of them are healthy weight loss diets, and even fewer are good for your personality and body type. There is a certain art to finding the right diet for you. A process that requires some time and effort. Dieting should never be something hard to do. The diet should feel as natural as breathing to you. By using the Metabolic Type Calculator after you use the Metab-O-Meter you will be able to find out exactly what foods help you speed up your metabolism.
The third step is getting plenty of exercise. To lose weight fast you have to exercise. There is no way around it. Start by walking more and being more physically active. Start practicing a sport you enjoy or you always wanted to try. To get the most out of working out, blend aerobic exercises with anaerobic exercises. That way you will increase your endurance and strengthen your muscles too. Plus the combination of strength training and cardio exercises make a killer fat burning combo. The fat will just start melting away.
If you want to get more detailed information on how to lose weight fast and other health tips, browse through the articles found on this website. When you see an article title that catches your eye, read it, then jump to the next one. If you can’t find something, even after using the search box, send me an email and I will answer your question as soon as I can.
Zap the fat and be healthy.
That is why the preparation steps you take before starting to lose weight are so important. By evaluating your condition and choosing the right diet for you, you will be able to lose weight fast and easy.
Your metabolism plays a key role in how fast you can lose weight. A fast metabolism makes quick weight loss a piece of cake. That is why the first step towards losing weight fast is to find out just how fast your metabolism is. You can use the Metab-O-Meter to the right to do just that. The Metab-O-Meter will tell you exactly how fast your metabolism really is.
The second step is all about choosing a diet that suits you. There are plenty of diets available but only a few of them are healthy weight loss diets, and even fewer are good for your personality and body type. There is a certain art to finding the right diet for you. A process that requires some time and effort. Dieting should never be something hard to do. The diet should feel as natural as breathing to you. By using the Metabolic Type Calculator after you use the Metab-O-Meter you will be able to find out exactly what foods help you speed up your metabolism.
The third step is getting plenty of exercise. To lose weight fast you have to exercise. There is no way around it. Start by walking more and being more physically active. Start practicing a sport you enjoy or you always wanted to try. To get the most out of working out, blend aerobic exercises with anaerobic exercises. That way you will increase your endurance and strengthen your muscles too. Plus the combination of strength training and cardio exercises make a killer fat burning combo. The fat will just start melting away.
If you want to get more detailed information on how to lose weight fast and other health tips, browse through the articles found on this website. When you see an article title that catches your eye, read it, then jump to the next one. If you can’t find something, even after using the search box, send me an email and I will answer your question as soon as I can.
Zap the fat and be healthy.
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